
For partners, spouses, family members, and loved ones
Walking Beside the Edge: A Guide to Living with and Supporting a Loved One with Mental Illness and Suicidal Tendencies
This page is for everyone who loves someone living with mental illness or suicidal thoughts partners, spouses, parents, siblings, adult children, and close friends. You did not choose this role, but you show up anyway. Your love is real, your exhaustion is real, and your wellbeing matters just as much. You are not alone in this.
If someone is in immediate danger
If Someone May Act on Suicidal Thoughts
If you believe someone is in immediate danger of acting on suicidal thoughts, please act now. Trust your instincts it is always better to reach out and be wrong than to wait.
United States and Canada (where available): Call or text 988 the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline to reach a trained crisis counselor immediately, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Call or text 988
Suicide & Crisis Lifeline United States and Canada (where available). A trained counselor is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, at no cost.
- Chat online at 988lifeline.org available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
- Call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department if someone is in immediate physical danger.
- Outside the United States and Canada, contact your local emergency services or national crisis line for immediate support.
Caring for Someone Else Starts with Caring for Yourself
Supporting a loved one through mental illness is one of the most demanding things a person can do. It asks everything of you your patience, your time, your emotional reserves, and sometimes your sense of self. Walking Beside the Edge was written specifically for you: the partner, the parent, the sibling, the friend who stays. This book offers compassionate, practical guidance for navigating this role without losing yourself in the process.

Resources for Supporters and Loved Ones
Whether you are newly navigating a loved one’s mental health crisis or have been walking this road for years, the resources below are organized to help you find practical support, information, and community quickly and without judgment.
Book & App
- Walking Beside the Edge get the book on Amazon
- LCH-Beside the Edge companion app for supporters (see the section below)
- Supporting a Loved One resource hub
- Walking Beside the Edge book page
- Living With the Invisible Storm
- Grief & Healing resources
- Suicide Prevention information
Mental Wellness & Self-Care for Supporters
Related Books & Information
Understanding Suicide
Learning about suicidal thinking can help you respond calmly and effectively when it matters most. Knowledge reduces fear and helps you feel more prepared.
Read more about understanding suicide →
Helping Someone in Crisis
Practical guidance on what to say, what to do, and how to support someone who is struggling without burning yourself out or making things worse.
You Can Love Someone and Still Need Support Yourself
Loving someone who is living with mental illness or suicidal thoughts is not something you were trained for. It can feel isolating, exhausting, and frightening sometimes all at once. You may grieve the relationship you thought you would have, feel guilt over moments of frustration, or wonder whether you are doing enough. All of those feelings are valid.
Caring deeply does not mean sacrificing yourself completely. Setting boundaries is not abandonment. Asking for your own help is not weakness. Taking time to rest and restore is not selfishness it is what makes it possible to keep showing up. Walking Beside the Edge was written to hold both truths at once: your love for them, and your need to protect yourself.
You cannot pour from an empty cup. Supporting a loved one through mental illness requires courage, patience, and crucially your own ongoing care. Asking for help is not a sign that you have failed them. It is a sign that you understand what this journey requires.
You Are Allowed to Set Boundaries
Boundaries are not walls they are the structures that make long-term support sustainable. Being clear about what you can and cannot do protects both of you. Walking Beside the Edge offers guidance on how to communicate boundaries with compassion, without guilt and without giving up.
Seek Your Own Professional Support
Therapists, counselors, and support groups for family members and caregivers can give you a space that is entirely yours to process, to grieve, to plan, and to breathe. You deserve support that is not about managing someone else’s crisis.
Discover the Book & the Companion App
LCH-Beside the Edge is the companion app to Walking Beside the Edge, designed to support family members, partners, and loved ones day to day. Ask your care team or search for LCH-Beside the Edge to learn more. Educational Resource Disclaimer: The content on this page is for informational and awareness purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical, psychiatric, or therapeutic advice. If you are concerned about your own or someone else’s safety, please contact a qualified mental health professional or emergency services.

